As women approach the 2 at the front of their true age, as indicated on their NRIC, it is inevitable that you will start to give some( i emphasise some) thoughts to the possibility of settling down. There you will start dreaming of your weddding- wedding venue, the songs during ur march and solemnisation, the people u wish to involve in ur wedding, the wedding dress and the wedding band..heaps of thinks to fantasise about. Hm,did you realise that something very important in the entire process is missing??
THat's right!!! IT'S THE GROOM!! Many times when I discuss about my wedding plans, my friends will duly remind me that I am heading to far- I have not found the partner to commence the plans. Even if I do find one, it's not my wedding. It's our wedding. Now, that really set me thinking. I might not get what I want- my dream wedding..LOL~
Hm "some" might sound like an understatement now, isn't it?
After my year in Sydney,I had seen the efforts and concerns of my family(extended included) in the search of "THE ONE". Many offers to help me create opportunities:doctor,pastor,football player,accountant. Well, at my workplace, my seniors have been in the deliberate quest to hunt for potential doctors for me!!! *shakes head and can't help but laughed till my tears erupted*
My close buddies will know of the criteria list that I've set is undesirably critical and insane. They do not think that such a person exist. When I took a look at it, I reckoned there's one person who fulfils all. I'm looking for the perfect man. Hm. It seems like only God can fulfil all those little itsy stuff i want in a person.
Hm. question: Have I refined my list then? *nods* One who has the courage, and not arrogance, 1)to be honest in Love,
2)trusting in the Lord for my honesty and character,
3)to battle the oppositions and persevere
3)to risk his vulnerability and trust in people4) to handle the calling of fatherhood for 4 children..LOL

-provided that He obeys the first and greatest commandment-
That's where it will stop, at this point:P
Next episode- my wedding. synopsis.

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